Living life her way: Helen’s story
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Geraldton mum Janelle knows only too well the challenges of juggling work, parenting, and being a wife, all while fighting for appropriate and timely support for kids with disabilities living in regional WA.
Her own seven-year journey to get the right diagnosis and supports for her son, Blake, was a difficult one. However, her tireless efforts to get her boys the support they need – after both Blake and her second son Tyler were diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) – led Janelle and her family to Rocky Bay.
Janelle’s was one of the first regional families to access a week-long intensive therapy program working alongside the Rocky Bay clinical team, made possible by the refurbishment of Lady Lawley Cottage. She drove down from Geraldton, staying in hotel accommodation in Cottesloe so her boys could access Lady Lawley every day.
“We provided our own accommodation and transport,” Janelle says. “Now that they have the accommodation there that would make it so much more beneficial.
“They [Blake and Tyler] developed so much in that week. They were able to actively engage with people they didn’t know and build friendships,” Janelle says. “We were able to have our week-long therapy, but we could also have all our reports and our behaviours to take home and implement as a family.”
The week at Lady Lawley Cottage made a huge difference for the O’Briens, and it’s about to get even better, with a communal space for families to connect with and youth respite accommodation set to open in 2026.
Janelle is keen to help others have access to the support that she’s experienced.
“I’m always pushing for advocacy for families,” she says. “We need our kids to be adaptive. Society is not going to change for them, and they need to function in it.”
And the evolving children and youth services at Lady Lawley Cottage will do just that, helping them find their place and live a life that is meaningful to them.
The family’s time at Lady Lawley Cottage gave Blake and Tyler access to a team of specialists and support. But it also gave Janelle the time to talk to another mum whose son was also accessing services at Lady Lawley Cottage.
“There was another boy there at the same time who was from Northampton. It was actually really nice to engage with her [his mum]. I’m used to waiting around but it was nice to have company.”
As Lady Lawley Cottage completes its final phase, these shared moments will elevate the space from providing a service to creating a community. Imagine a space where siblings can work side by side, accessing inclusive group activities, designed to engage customers and the family members who support them and making memories, while their parents take time to relax and connect with others who understand their journey.
Outside, the barbeque area will be a space for families to gather for shared meals and relaxed conversations framed by the warm Cottesloe breeze and the sounds of the ocean. Together, these spaces will form the social heart of Lady Lawley, thoughtfully designed so families can feel connected and at ease during their stay.
To find out more about Lady Lawley Cottage and how you can support regional families, click here.
We didn’t have a lot growing up, but we did have experiences. That’s something I want my boys to have.
- Janelle O’Brien, Blake and Tyler’s mum